Iinkokheli kunye nobuNkokheli: Indlela yokuba yinkokeli elumkileyo

Amadada. Yiloo ndlela iinkokeli ezininzi ezizibona ngayo. Okanye ungathanda. Nokuba kuqhubeka ntoni na ngaphantsi komgca wamanzi, babonisa ukungazithembi, ukuzola, ukuqokelelwa, ukukhuthaza ukuthembana, inkuthazo kunye nokuzithemba. Amaqela abo acela ukwahluka.

23–JUN–2023 | Speak Your Mind!: Indlela yokuba yinkokeli enengqondo - uChris Galea

Umbono vs. Inyani

Imbono yenkokeli ikude nenyani.

Kuphela ipesenti ezisi-7 zabasebenzi zikholelwa ukuba iinkokeli ezigxininisiweyo zikhokela ngokufanelekileyo amaqela abo, kwaye kuphela ipesenti ezili-11 zabasebenzi abaneenkokeli ezigxininisekileyo ezixakeke kakhulu emsebenzini.

Kodwa ngaba iyamangalisa? Jonga imingeni iinkokeli ezijongene nayo namhlanje. Umongo esiphila kuwo nesisebenza kuwo utshintsha ngokungenasiphelo. Ixesha lilinganiswa ngee-microseconds. Kukho imiqobo emitsha, entsonkothileyo yezoqoqosho nenkcubeko emdlalweni. Sidityaniswe ngokungekho ngqiqweni i-24/7 kuluhlu lweetekhnoloji ezivelisa ulwazi olugqithileyo singasathethi ngoxinzelelo kwaye, ngokumangalisayo, ukubekwa wedwa. Iparadigm enye emva kwenye iyatshintsha. Umthamo wolwazi esinawo ukhokelela kuncinci kunokuba uqiniseke ngakumbi. Inani lamazwi kunye nezimvo esizivayo kuwo nawuphi na umba onikiweyo buninzi kakhulu, siyasokola ukujamelana nje, singasathethi ke ngokuphulaphula ngokwenene okanye, izulu lingavumi, siqonde.

Sithe saa. Iqhekeza. Iyangqubana. Ndonganyelwe. Uxinezeleko luxakile. Ixesha lalilambile. Ngazo zonke iindlela ezininzi esiphazamiseka ngazo, sithobe intuition yethu, kwaye sihlukanise ingqalelo yethu, sinokuhamba ngokulula kubomi bethu bonke ngaphandle kokuzisa bonke ubuchule bethu kunye nengqalelo kuwo nawuphi na umzuzu.

Uqwalaselo olungaphelelanga oluqhubekayo luyadinisa kwaye alusebenzi. Inciphisa amandla ethu kunye nokukwazi ukukhokela ngokugqwesileyo. Maninzi kakhulu amaxesha apho siziva sicima imililo okanye sichitha ixesha kunokuba senze umsebenzi wokwenene, singasathethi ke ngowona msebenzi wethu ubalaseleyo. Ngaba ngokwenyani sinokulindela ukugqwesa kobunkokeli xa sichitha imini yonke ku-autopilot?

Hayi. Ngokwenyani, asinawo amandla afunekayo - ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokwasengqondweni - ukucaca, ukugxila, ukungagwebi, kunye nokuphulaphula nzulu, intuitively, ngokupheleleyo kuthi nakwabanye.

Kodwa kwimeko-bume ekhuphisanayo - enye eguquguqukayo, eguquguqukayo, ehamba ngokukhawuleza, eyinkimbinkimbi - ukwenza izigqibo ngeengqondo eziphazamiseke kakhulu, ukuphendula endaweni yokuphendula, ukwenza imisebenzi emininzi endaweni yokugxila, ayisenanto yokuzikhethela.

Iindaba ezilungileyo? Ukuqonda kungqinwe ngokwesayensi ukunceda iinkokeli ukulawula uxinzelelo, ukwenza izigqibo ezingcono, nokusebenza ngcono nabanye abantu, kwaye babe ziinkokeli ezisebenzayo. Konke oku kunciphisa uxinzelelo lwabasebenzi, kudala indawo yokusebenza engcono, kwaye ewe, iphucula umgca ophantsi.

Ukusebenzisa Amandla Engqondo

Yintoni Ukuqiqa? Ngokulula, kukwazi ngokupheleleyo nangokungenamiqathango ngawo nawuphi na umzuzu. Ayiphenjelelwa ngamava exesha elidlulileyo, engaphenjelelwanga ngamathemba kunye nolindelo lwexesha elizayo, ungaboni ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi koko kulapha ngokwenene, hayi ngezigwebo ezinokukhokelela kwimpendulo enemeko. Kodwa ukuba namandla okubona into ekhoyo kanye njengoko injalo, njengoko isenzeka, idibana nomzuzu ngamnye ngokulingana…ubunyulu bangoku.

Ukucoca ingqondo yakho yecala, isigwebo, iziphazamiso, i-clutter, ivumela indawo yokucaca, imbono, ukuzola, ukuzithemba, ukulinganisela, ukugxila - kwaye ke ihambisa indibaniselwano enamandla ngokukodwa yamandla kunye nolwalathiso.

Ikwasivumela ukuba sifikelele kwimithombo engasetyenziswanga - amandla kunye nobuchule bomntu bujongelwa phantsi kakhulu ngenxa yaloo mthwalo wokuphazamiseka, utyekelo kunye nokugweba.

Endaweni yenkqubo yokucinga eyintloko kuphela (esebenzayo, enengqondo, kwaye egcwele amasiko angazi nto asibambe kwaye athintele inguquko), isenza sibe nokuqonda kunye nokukwazi ukuhambelana nokuziva kwamathumbu, ithuku, intuition, ukuqonda ngokupheleleyo. yomxholo, yiba nembono ecacileyo, kwaye ubonise ngolweyiseko olungagungqiyo.

Indlela Yokuba YiNkokeli Elumkileyo

Inkokeli enengqiqo ikhetha ngokunyanisekileyo ukuhlakulela ukuqonda, ukugxila, ukucaca, imbono, ukukholelwa, ukuyila kunye novelwano.

Ifuna ukuba uziqhelanise noko kwenzekayo ngeli xesha.

Ifuna ingqwalasela epheleleyo nepheleleyo engagwetyelwanga.

Kuthetha ukuba ukhetha impendulo, endaweni yokusabela njengoko izinto zisenzeka. Kuthetha ukuba usebenza ngamandla.

Unesimo esilungileyo semeko. Uziva uqhagamshelene nabantu abakungqongileyo. Uzibandakanye ngokupheleleyo, ingqondo yakho yasekunene neyasekhohlo. Unamandla, nawe, kwaye loo mandla ayosulela abanye. Kwaye kunye namandla, unesikhokelo esicacileyo.

Ngokulandela iindlela ezilula eziphucula ingqalelo yakho kunye nokuqonda kwakho okwenzekayo emzimbeni nasengqondweni ngalo naliphi na ixesha, ungasebenzisa onke amandla akho kunye nobuchule bakho.

Uluhlu lude kwaye ngokufanelekileyo kufuneka lube lolwakho kukhetho lwakho lomntu, imiqobo yexesha kunye nokunye, kodwa ukukunika nje emine kwimizekelo emininzi yokuba oku kujongeka njani:

1. Ukungagwebi

Oku kubhekiselele kumkhwa wokunikela ingqalelo ngaphandle kokugweba. Sithanda ukubona izinto ngokwethu imbono, nto leyo eyenza isigqubuthelo phambi kwamehlo ethu. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela olu tyekelo lokugweba (olubonakala luza ngokwemvelo kuninzi lwethu), kodwa ungavalelwa lulo.

Ngamanye amazwi, kubalulekile ukuba siyeke ukugweba izigwebo zethu. Ukuba sinokujonga nje izigwebo zethu, sizivume, kwaye singagwebi ukugweba, ngokumangalisayo, ngenene sisendleleni eya ekubeni singagwebi kwaye siphile ubomi obunenyani ngakumbi!

2. Ukwamkelwa

Ukuziqhelanisa nokukhumbula ukwamkelwa yinkqubo esebenzayo yokuqaphela izinto njengoko zinjalo kwaye kungekhona indlela esifuna ukuba zibe ngayo. Sizixakekisa kakhulu ngokuzama ukutshintsha izinto ukuze zihambelane nathi kangangokuba singazivumeli ukuba zibe njalo.

Ukwamkela, ingakumbi izehlo ezingathandekiyo okanye ezimbi, iingcinga, kunye neemvakalelo akukho lula (umz. iintlungu nokubandezeleka). Ngaphambi kokuba ukwazi ukujongana nentlungu, kufuneka uqale uyamkele kwaye uyivumele ukuba ibe njalo. Elo linyathelo lokuqala elibalulekileyo elikhokelela ekunyangeni. Wakuba usazi apho umi khona, ungasebenzisa obakho ubulumko ngendlela yokutshintsha imeko uze uthathe amanyathelo afanelekileyo.

3. Umbulelo

Sithanda ukuthatha izinto ezininzi lula ebomini bethu. Kukho imfuneko enkulu yokuzisa umbulelo kwixesha langoku, siqonde indlela esisikeleleke ngayo ngokuphila, imizimba yethu isebenza kakuhle: ukuba nombulelo ngokuba namehlo anokubona, iindlebe ezivayo, izandla neenyawo ezisebenzayo! Ukukhumbula ezi ntsikelelo kubaluleke kakhulu.

Nangona kunjalo, sihlala sifikelela koku kuqonda xa kukho into engahambi kakuhle, ukwenzakala ngokomzekelo, okusiqhubela ekubeni sicinge kwaye sibale iintsikelelo zethu. Isiko lokubulela sigcina i-negativity ikude kwaye ikhuthaza umoya wokwaneliseka ebomini.

4. Isisa

Okokugqibela, sinomkhuba wokupha, ukunika ixesha kunye nengqalelo kuthi nakwabanye, sibonisa ukuba sinenkathalo, siphucula imvakalelo yokunxibelelana. Ukuzisa uvuyo kwabanye, ukuzama ukunika abantu oko kuya kubavuyisa kwaziwa ngokuba neenzuzo ezininzi ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwengqondo (ndabhala ngale nto kwinqaku elingaphambili).

Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ibe yinto enkulu; isenokuba yinto elula njengokuncumela umntu ongamaziyo, ekunokuthiwa sonke sinosuku olubi yaye ngenene ebenokusebenzisa uncumo lobubele nolobuhlobo.

Isitshixo sokuhlala sizolile kwaye sisekelwe kukuzigoba kwaye samkele apho sikhoyo kuhambo lobomi, ngaphandle kokugweba kunye novelwano, sikhuselekile kulwazi lokuba silapho simelwe ukuba sibe khona kwaye izinto ziya kutyhileka ngokwemvelo njengoko bekuthethwa. ukuya.

Ubunkokeli bubalulekile, kodwa ubunkokeli obunenkathalo bubuphakamisa.

Ukuthatha okuQatha:

• Iinkokeli zihlala zinembono egqwethekileyo yokusebenza kwazo, ngelixa amaqela abo efumana ukunqongophala kunye nokuzibandakanya.
• Ukuqiqa sisisombululo esiqinisekisiweyo kwimingeni ejongene neenkokeli namhlanje, ukubanceda ukulawula uxinzelelo, ukwenza izigqibo ezingcono, kunye nokukhuthaza intsebenziswano.
• Iinkokeli ezinengqiqo zihlakulela ulwazi, ukugxila, kunye nokucaca, kwaye zikhethe iimpendulo kunokuba ziphendule ngokungxama.
• Ngokuziqhelanisa nokuqaphela, iinkokeli zinokungena kumandla azo angasetyenziswanga, zibonise amandla awosulelayo, kwaye zinike umkhombandlela ocacileyo, zithatha ubunkokeli bazo ziye kwinqanaba elilandelayo.

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UChris Galea yinkokeli yoshishino ephunyeziweyo, eqhayisa ngemvelaphi ebanzi neyohlukeneyo equka iminyaka engama-35 yamava olawulo oluphezulu kumaqumrhu abalaseleyo kumazwe angaphezu kwama-75. Ngesiseko esiluqilima njengomqeqeshi ovunyiweyo ovunyiweyo, uChris ubambe zombini iziqinisekiso zesiseko kunye nenqanaba eliphezulu, kubandakanya iPCC kunye ne-ICF iziqinisekiso. Ubungcali bakhe bulele kwiinkalo zoPhuhliso loMntu kunye ne-Executive Coaching / Development Development. Ukongeza, igalelo elixabisekileyo likaChris ku PRODIREKTIqela lobunkokeli isukela kwimvelaphi yakhe ebanzi yoqeqesho kunye namava akhe exesha elidlulileyo kwiindima zolawulo oluphezulu kwicandelo lee-arhente zentengiso.

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